I'm curious, how many people here have had sex? Raise your hand if you have and explain how it went for you.
sex is nice especially if you don't read the instructions on the side of the box beforehand or just neglect them all together
no... im waiting till marriage.........
@3 I'm gonna make you marry me first
i have a boy-friend...
don't listen to people saying it's overrated, it's real good when you do it with someone you love. it's also one of the last things you'll be able to feel if you have clinical depression
it is very time-consuming to get ready to have things shoved up my butt
I have a long-term girlfriend, so yeah.
> it's also one of the last things you'll be able to feel if you have clinical depression
Maybe, but it doesn't feel as good as people make it out to be. The best part is the intimacy. Otherwise I can just fap and it feels the same.
/me raises hand
I had a gf at university for two years, but we didn't have vaginal sex until near the end of the relationship. That was disappointing in so many ways. We were both virgins; the anime trope would have it that the 'first time' is really special. Not so. She didn't really enjoy it, I came too quickly, and basically I felt like a mindless automaton thrusting for my own pleasure, while she tolerated it without enjoyment.
Sure, if I had more practice it might feel better, but sadly I didn't have much chance for that. Lockdown happened and we broke up during that time. Now I'm a loner NEET with no friends where I live, let alone a gf. lol
>>8 is right that it's intimacy which counts. The best times were quite far from sex, like her whispery moan when I kissed her on the neck, or when she massaged my ear with her soft, warm tongue while I rubbed her back.
that's what i tried to imply by saying "it's real good when you do it with someone you love."
because of the intimacy. not much can beat it
you'll feel something for a short while if you have sex when clinically depressed (as it's one of the last things you can feel then, if you don't count doing drugs), but it won't be nowhere as good as the moments you'd share with someone you love
> Lockdown happened and we broke up during that time
Why? Was it going downhill before corona broke out? Seems abrupt.
none, thats why chans exist
Nah it's completely overrated.
I've both given and received anal with my partner and when topping the sensations are pretty boring and when bottoming it's just kinda painful, even when using as much lube as possible. Oral, handjobs, frotting, and just heavy makeouts and naked cuddling are honestly much better. I'm probably biased against sex bc I've never had piv and only had sex with one person who maybe I'm not a great sexual fit for, but we definitely love each other way more than sex matters to either of us.
@13 I'd agree that topping kinda sucks, maybe it's just not my thing at all. w/r/t bottoming "kinda hurting" I have to warm up by myself for a bit before I can even hope to put other things in my butt. When I do get there, though, it's kinda nice to just focus on that feeling If it was painful it would not be fun at all. I just wanna hug my top while we're in the middle of it but 9/10 times there's lube fucking all over my hands and everywhere for obvious reasons
cuddling after sex is probably my favorite though