Why are there more men than women in online dating? Isn't the population 50/50? Or are there more men than women because of immigration or something? I really don't get it.
How has doujinshi and ero-manga affected your sexuality and fetishes in general?
Of course, there's the usual tropes (tomboy, genki girl, onee-san type, ...) which can give you some insights into personality types you wouldn't necessarily be aware of or attracted to before, but I'm thinking in particular of things like otokonoko (`traps') and futanari, or even a particularly nice yaoi doujin sometimes.
It feels like people in that demographic (H-manga consumers) have less apprehension when it comes to fap material outside their IRL orientation/attraction and such. Or maybe it is just 3D porn being boring and rehashed outside of niche communities? Everything popular is just straight-up vanilla.
Maybe it's due to drawings inherently being able to make anything look good. It's hard to differentiate between a doujin featuring two boys and a regular hetero one, sometimes, due to how feminized they can be. I guess that means we're more attracted to physical traits than anything else?
There's also the matter of "taboo" material, like incest, loli, and the likes, I suppose (though I think incest is mainstream amongst the masses now as well?).
Is there anything more rewarding than an involuntarily vocal lover? I posit the negative, but would like to hear other opinions on the most enjoyable qualities of a nice partner