my sister is convinced that everyone else in the entire world is the problem and that the failures in her life are all because of external sources

if you think everyone else is the problem, maybe you're the problem


In her defense, you’re probably not a great brother.


I'm not the person she blames for all her problems lol
she blames society, the government, etc
no sense of personal responsibility


Give me a description of your sister's life. Is she living on her own or is she living with parents? NEET or Wageslave? Old or young? Virgin or non-virgin? Thanks.


uh I don't wanna post personal info, but basically she's one of many people in life who think that anything in their life is out of their control
in reality, some things are out of your control
but many things can be changed by the individual
for many people, it's a way to cope with bad decisions in life -- just blame the world instead of owning up to your own actions


Until and unless we remove hierarchical systems of oppression, there will always be externalities that make decisions sub-optimal.


It depends. Some people have very bad luck.


If she doesn't outside societal factors influencing her life she should just go off grid and live in the jungle then there is nothing to blame except herself